Probably the most stressful part when dating is to arrange an appointment at all. The fear of rejection makes the questions on a date often a test of nerves. Thankfully, modern technology offers ways to reduce the fear of rejection or circumvent all.  

Here are some tips come to arranging an appointment:  

1. Do not make it too complicated and just be yourself: Someone asks for a date, must be a really huge thing. You do not have to spend hours in front of the mirror and rehearse your text. Go to step forward. Ask for the phone number of the other, you call a few times or replace a few SMS messages. Please call if you have an idea for going out and ask the others if he or she wants to go. The total is not more frightening than let it be.  

2. Use online dating services: I am a big fan of internet dating.  Online dating is a very efficient way for an appointment. Entire books could be alone written about successful internet dating. I will not comment specifically on in this article, but in principle it makes sense to send an e-mail .Tell us what funny, write each other a few times and if you feel you are interested, please ask for a date. The fear of rejection is the online dating almost completely left out, so do not beat around the bush too long. If there are even the slightest signs of arcing, do not be afraid and beat you.  

3. Turn your friends into dates: If you are a friendly person who knows a lot of other people out dates mostly develop all by itself. This is probably the easiest way to get a date. Be friendly, approachable and take things with other people. Chances are that you get to know someone and the Date developed in a natural way.  

4. Use SMS: I love text messages about everything. They are the perfect dating tool. When you meet someone, you do not ask the same for a date. Just ask for the phone number. Do you have the time, you can flirt via SMS. Text is such a wonderful innocuous form of communication. It is completely normal for the respective other one or two hours later, responding to a message. All the pressure and intensity fall off of one. In addition, one can estimate the interest of another person, without endangering his own ego too much. Text is simply a nice, personal way to flirt with someone. Once a relationship is established, you ask others to meet with you for a drink.  

5. Not try your dating skills to colleagues: It can be very tempting to ensnare colleagues. Finally, you are always with them. As logical as this may seem, romantic relationships with colleagues usually end in absolute chaos. You can use any professionalism that you have built, shake the core or even ruin. Rumors and innuendo dear colleagues around the two lovebirds can cause great damage. Also, you would have after a successful date and then the resulting relationship no longer break from your partner. Even if you idolize someone, you should maintain a certain minimum distance in daily life.